Saturday, December 27, 2014

Making the Best of Everything.

"Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things." 

Philippians 4:8

A Triple Best.

by Arch. Alexander  (abridged)

Some time ago I came across the life-motto of George Stephenson, the "father of the locomotive," as he has been called. He said, "Make the best of everything; think the best of everybody; hope the best for yourself." 

First, MAKE THE BEST OF EVERYTHING.  In every set of circumstances possible or conceivable, there are always, at any rate, two ways of acting.  You can look for the helpful, bright, and hopeful things, and "freeze on" to these meantime.  Or, you can select all the doleful, somber aspects, and sit down in the dust with them.  Now, if it did not matter which a man did, there would be no good saying any more.  But it has long since become abundantly clear that the man who makes the best of his circumstances, however hard they be, comes most happily out of them in the end.  In other words, it pays to make the best of things. It is the cheery people who recover quickest when they are sick.  There are men who, if their house should fall in ruins about them, will contrive some sort of shelter meantime with the broken beams!  

Nobody pretends that it is easy, when we have failed, to gather our powers together and try again.  But nearly all the big men have had to do that very thing.  It certainly is not easy, when you have a heavy burden of your own, to spare a cheery word or a hand of sympathy for somebody who is really much better off, but there are plenty of people doing it at this moment.  Nero's palace is the last place in this world where you would expect to find a company of loyal Christian folk.  Yet there were such people there, "the saints of Cæsar's household."  And the grace of God that made that possible can achieve all these lesser wonders too.

Second, THINK THE BEST OF EVERYBODY.  The way to get the best out of people is to think the best about them. Let a man see that you have good hopes of him, and recognize what is best in him, and, in ways of which science can give no explanation, you add to his chances of reaching better things.  In any case, who would not wish to stand on Christ's side rather than on Judas's.  "This ointment might have been sold for three hundred pence and given to the poor." That is Judas.  "Let her alone.  Why trouble ye her?  She hath wrought a good work in me.  She hath done what she could."  That is Jesus Christ.

Third,--Don't leave yourself out of the picture. 
 HOPE THE BEST FOR YOURSELF.  Hope the best for yourself, and you are already a good way on the road to it.  Suggestion is a tremendously powerful instrument, even when you make it yourself. By self suggestion, the psychologists tell us, you can influence your actions, your character, and your general outlook in a wonderful fashion, either to your advantage or your hurt.  Therefore, they say, be careful never to suggest evil to yourself.  Never say to yourself, "I'm going to make a mess of this," or "I am not fit for that." Suggest success, happiness, health, and you beckon them to you.  

Hope the best for yourself, and you pave the way for its coming. On higher planes, the same holds true.  Hope on, and, though you fall you will rise again.  Believe that you will be enabled to face your trouble or temptation, and you will be brought through it somehow. Even when the end of life is near, hope still, for beyond this best there is a better, and God's road winds uphill all the way. 

But, you say, this is just faith.  I know it is.  Run your hopes for yourself up as high as you can reach, and they will touch God and become faith.  That is why you are to hope the best for yourself because God the Father loves you, and desires the best for you too.

I believe in the optimism which Stephenson's motto embodies, because I believe in the Fatherhood of God through our Lord Jesus Christ.  That is why I counsel you to go on hoping that the best is yet to be.  Not that we can earn it at all, or that we deserve it at all.  But--because God, our Father.  And, for the daring and faith of that saying, this sufficient ground.--Because--Jesus Christ.

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